I’ve already advised most of you (my friends) of the break up situation. I know most of you laughed and I think I choked on my chambord and pineapple last night laughing with you, but it is (regardless of all the jokes) a serious matter. And it’s a very hard situation to be in, realizing I went through a lot of unnecessary stress and anxiety and still am. I just spent a good part of my after work moments editing this blog because Mr. Ex wanted everything that referred to him out of this site, as if anyone really knows who he is or cares. (Not being catty it’s true, half of my friends have never seen him before even after two and a half years.) Anyway, I got most of that accomplished, enough to bring the site back up again.
Not a lot to report really. For the most part time, energy and effort is all that’s been lost. This time around I’ve managed not to let my school work suffer, and have resisted the temptation to call in from work to stay home and sulk. Actually, there wasn’t any temptation all due to my unexpected surprise.
Surprise, I have a lot of friends that care about me. I do want to thank everyone for the support and well wishes. A couple I can’t mention but you know who you are, some I would mention but I’m sure you’d rather I not =) It is very fortunate that this all took place while my friend Becky was in town. She has shown her support during and after the relationship. I called her up last night to eat dinner with me and a couple of friends at Buffalo Wild Wings, and on my way to her house I decided on a whim to text unknown. I got a response and it was definitely more than I expected or deserved.
The background story. Unknown and I have a bit of history but unfortunately I blew him off because Mr. Ex told me to. That was my mistake, but I thought it was a sacrifice I was making to salvage the relationship. After all that you would think the person you sacrificed would write you off as another dumb flake, but for some reason that didn’t happen. He has truly been my own personal saving grace. He’s been there for me several times already, just absolutely sweet, funny, and he managed to keep me entertained during work today with random text messages.
Honestly, outside of all the times I’ve needed Unknown I never got a chance to know him better. I think maybe this time I’ll stick around and make sure I’m there when he ever needs someone. I do owe him, don’t I? Besides, he has my dog…LOL!
Anyway, this was going to be a short blog. I have quite a bit more homework to do before I go out tonight. One of my friends is celebrating her birthday at Liquid and I think Becky and I planned on hitting a couple spots before that.
Today’s Words of Wisdom – Friends are real treasures, and I am rich with friends.
